A reason, A season and a lifetime   7 comments

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON. It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.

Then people come into your life for a SEASON. Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Some people             (    )
come into our lives      )  /
and quickly go..        ( _/

            (    )   Some people
             \  (    become friends
              \ )    and stay awhile…

leaving beautiful    0ooo
footprints on our   (    )
hearts…               )  /
                         ( _/
  (    )    and we are
   \  (     never quite the same
    \_)     because we have made a good friend!!! 


Posted 2005/04/30 by Tian in Life in a Style

7 responses to “A reason, A season and a lifetime

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  1. it seems that i came across candy not for a reason, not for a season. but…(此处作者略去一万五千字。)

  2. Hello,Candy,My first look.

  3. My first look

  4. so many people without saying anything,why?

  5. your english are good, Um…i am just…

  6. 安,这个是你写的吖。。。我跳楼去了,姐姐,快来给我补习英文。。。

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