People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON. It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.

Then people come into your life for a SEASON. Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

                               0ooo
Some people             (    )
come into our lives      )  /
and quickly go..        ( _/

             ooo0
            (    )   Some people
             \  (    become friends
              \ )    and stay awhile…

leaving beautiful    0ooo
footprints on our   (    )
hearts…               )  /
                         ( _/
 
   ooo0
  (    )    and we are
   \  (     never quite the same
    \_)     because we have made a good friend!!! 

Someone told me I should have built up a blog online, I said, no way! Nobody would be intrested in my nagging esp things like daily trifles.

   When I got here, I knew I was wrong. This is more like a life album which will record your footprints as time goes by. Thus, here I am , in my own cyberspace:)

   My dear friends, no matter you are my friends in real life or not, you are all welcome to leave some footprints in my space and make my tiny world online more wonderful~

 

Candy

On a rainy day in Chengdu